Reason of increasing Day by Day crimes, raps & murders in India

What is Reason of increasing Day by Day crimes, raps & murders in India. I think every Indian looking for answer for this question. After such a painful gang rap every India women, student scared to dead to go out at night shifts work or class in evening. But questions raised here “Is any one doing something to stop all this and who is these people who doing all this crimes in front of every one”.

The people who is doing this is all used to be know as human beings but now they precisely become a cannibal(who eats humans). Our government is not taking any step towards all criminals & not any Creating any rules as well and even after doing crimes (including rape, murder) Criminal gets only 2- 3 year of jail and then they can take part in elections and become a politicians who will get the control of at least one state. Tell me honestly then how many people will not do crime, if they would get every thing after doing all bad thing who do not want power, money in their life in easy ways.

 We all have good idea of Indian government rules and how much criminal afraid off, after rapping an innocent girl all 6 criminal went to their regular work. Unbelievable!

In India 20 rapes is happing in 1 hr. how can be any one safe. when I used to go at work in Delhi. I have seen lots of men who just want take advantage of crowed and start touching women and they keep starring you continuously until would not get the feeling of not weaning any thing. its all start from small thing and then come to rape.

I was watching the news about Painful rape incident, there was debate in nahure college in Delhi with news channel & some of Top educated people, They start the dissuasion about the crimes and rape on TV. You can not believe one old men who might be 50-55 year old, he looks very well educated who might be one of the Indian government part.

He said at national TV “Raps are happing because girls is wearing the small cloths if you going out you should wear the some cloths which cover your all body & we can not stop rapes because this is a men body function and we can not do any thing about that.”

Seriously if our government or old people talk like this what will happen to our country future and I wish I would there at during discussion, I was surly going to ask him a question “Fine I am agree with you about cloths but what is reason of women who is weaning sari , suits and etc.

I really wish to hear answer from his mouth. I do not understand why people always want to balm someone instant of finding own mistakes.

I do not think wearing cloths matters in Crimes. The thing matters is know as “thinking or mentality”. What people think about others, how they see thing in there ways, all this matters.

I hope one day will come when all people will develop their thinking and supports women’s and clean their dirty mind.

Lots of girls are doing suicides and some of them killed by criminal, parents and most factor society.

Society plays an important role in every thing where good and bad people live together.

The bad society people who can not see the happiness of others and also tried to advise them and good society people who is always scared of the bad society and just want to stay away from them.

We just need to improve our mentality. But this is not going to be easy but we still can try. we can not change any country past but at least we can help to Grow new generation

Why we are afraid to be Responsible?

When I was writing a post before this one as a birthday present for my papa, I even can’t image that he would be in the hospital on his birthday.

I don’t know how I am writing this post, may be because I do not have any one to share my pain at this point.

Why the people do not take responsibility, when they do something wrong. I know no one wants to hurt any one intensely but if you did something wrong at least be responsible for what you have done.

If you did hit someone by car at least take him to hospital. Why we all afraid so much to take responsibility and even doesn’t think about the person family? It is very simple to hurt someone but why we afraid to admit our own mistakes.

I am not only talking about hitting or killing someone. I mean to say, if you had fight with your friends, family or you did some thing wrong at work, why is it hard for people to admit their mistakes. No one is perfect in their life then Why we always want to blam some one else. One sorry will not make any one die.

At least it will make some one feel better and help him or her to forgive you.

I know “Sorry” will not change any thing but this word work like a medicine sometime.

Whenever you hurting someone just try to feel “what would be you feel if you are at his place”

this thinking will make every thing so simple for you to understand.

If we take responsibility at a right time, may be it will save someone life and it would be less painful compare to thinking whole life about that person” is he alive or not”.

I want to salute those people who helped other person without even knowing them and thanks to all people who helped even ones in their life when someone really needed them.

We all (including me) think sometime like “that person is bad or the politicians are bad. But I think we just need to changes our self and the every thing will be wonderful.

Wish you luck and thanks to all people you helps others without expecting any thing or knowing them.

Father daughter relationship

This post is dedicated to papa.

Father Daughter relationship is the one of the most loving and beautiful relations on the earth.

Mostly we know that mother suffer lots of problems and pain during baby birth.

But father is the person who may be not able to feel that pain but he spend his whole life to work hard for his baby and does lots of wait to see a first sight of his baby girl or boy. He feels so cheer full when his baby opens their eyes in his hand. He waits for hearing the words “papa” from his child.

You can say it is like a most exciting moments for him and start planning for his baby future before baby come to this world.

He helps his daughter or son for their first walk & spends his every night sitting near to his baby, so baby will not cry. If we think about beautiful moment we had spent with our family, its looks like a dream now because we are grownup and Busy in own world.

 But still there are lot of memories in every one life which always come up in mind, sometime may be they are not very much good but still they left little smile on every one faces and remind us how much stupid we were.

I still remember when my father went to school for my admission, how much excited he was at that time, looks like he was the one who going to school and me you can assume that.

Every day after coming from office, he always spare sometime for me to play with me. I don’t know how he managed that. Now I am working & feels like every day is fighting for life, forgets about any spare time.

He always tried his best to keep me happy and gave everything, like every good father do even may be they are not able to effort that. Do you know what is the funny thing, when I was child always wish to be a grownup and earn lots of money and do something? Now I wish to control time and go back to my childhood and spend my whole life with my parents.

Whenever I need him he was always beside me. He is the one who always help me to select what is wrong and right. Yes, mostly all the time, I don’t listen to him but he always loves me. I can say he is the only one who accepts me as am I. Why he is so kind and nice & why I was so rude. 

I don’t have answers of my own question till now. Our parents always love us without any expiation and we always think, we do not need any one but inside our heart we have so much love for them, just a matter of time sometime it is too  late to listen own heart. One day I was talking to my father on the Skype internet and suddenly, he start crying & there was lots of tear in his eyes and as A very much good and lovely daughter, I start laughing  and asked him “hey papa why are u crying”. He was sitting so quiet and sad then he said I miss u lot, you are my naughtiest daughter whenever I used to come back to home on holidays (he is in army). We always had a fight and now my missing that fight & missing your stupid thing which you always do. (Actually I am specialist in braking things like TV, fans and much more).

Then what after hearing that words I felt like my heart beat stopped but I just don’t want to let him know that “I miss you too Dad” and I gave a smile and said “bye dad, I am feeling sleepy”.

Now I just want to say

“Dear papa, I know your birthday is coming next month, maybe I will not there with you.

But I know, I am always in your heart and some time I do thing which you don’t like.

I am so sorry for everything and just want to say “I love you dad more than anything and Wish you very very happy birthday in advance.  I know, I cannot able to do thing which you have done for me,

But I will try my best to be a good daughter and for you as your son.

Love you Papa 

 

Bad Day of Month

It all starts when on one evening after office; we (me & hubby) went to supermarket to buy some grocery.

After finishing the shopping we went to checkout assistant for making the payment. i tried my card it didn’t work tried again but with same result this time too. The operator told me that your card is not working but I didn’t listen as was busy in lessening songs and I started giving logical explanation to him for why is that card not working like try again it happen sometime, etc. Kamal was watching me and started laughing and he gave his card to operator to proceed with the payment and we left from Tesco. Till then I didn’t understand what the issue was.

Then in the way to home he told me your card was not working, and then I couldn’t wait to check what is going on. I tried my card in cash machine as well but still it was declined for cash withdrawal. I couldn’t understand it should at least have 30 to 40 pounds then why it was not working.

Then I check on internet and come to know it has only 23 pound. But still it should work, do not know what is going on.

Then finally reached at home and kept some pasta for boiling and told hubby to check that. When I came back from gym, first thing I did check my pasta. It was nice and boiled but still starts fighting with him Kamal without any reason. (May be it was little overcooked)

I think, I get mad sometimes, even I know from inside that he too tired as much as I and still he have helped me but I just ignore it.

Next morning, Oh My God, I wake up at 7:30 and have to reach station to catch the train at 7:49.

So what, I managed somehow. I was having only 10 min to go for that i do not know how did I mange but after all, I got ready and Kamal got surprised how I got ready and then reached to station after running, but train was late for 3 min. then I know, I am 10 min late for office.

Actually have a connected train for office, which means there is only 4 min time for me to get other train after get down from first train.

 Probably because of that when I reached to other station to catch my other train, I missed it. So what I have to wait for 30min to catch other train and it was very cold in morning.

Then I have to call and inform my senior in the office. At that time, I just wanted to cry because my phone is blocked from two days and I was thinking it is a network problem. I could not tell you how I managed without phone.

Thank God!!! Kamal has called me so I told him to SMS someone in my office about reaching late of office that day.

Finally the train arrived, I was getting hungry so I started eating cornflake without any milk in the train but I was running out of luck that day I think. My Tiffin fell down on the train floor and I had no option but to blame me and my luck.

At such times, I just feel like killing myself but leave it. Finally I reached to office, as I was late so I had to work extra time so lunch time was missed little bit.

but I still have hope my evening should be fine, then suddenly got remember one day before during spinning class in gym, I heart my lag and it is still pain.

After finishing my day, I thought that I still have to go home and cook and the journey back to home. There is so much to do.

Is my life too hard?

It sounds too funny as well, isn’t it? But touch wood, we should always keep the cool and try to be happy. Otherwise life is hard indeed and I know my life is lot better than many people who need to struggle much more daily.

Sometime it is very hard to control the thing when they all going in different way (bad direction), at that time hard you try to do thing better, and more they will go wrong.

I think because during the hard time, it is very difficult to control the mind in right direction so better to chill out for some time, not try too much hard and thing always go in right direction when you are in good mood.

So be happy, keep smiling and spread smiles. There are many around who need it badly.

Aamir Khan Satyamev Jayate TV show

I was looking for my new topic for blog post and suddenly got one.

Why don’t I write something about Amir Khan and his recently launched TV show Satyamev Jayate?

Almost everyone in India knows about the show by now. It’s everywhere, in news channels and on FB you can see every day update. He is one of the best actors India has produced. He concentrates more on his work rather than results. He never attends any awards function. I have been fond of his works for long time. He has become a hero now with his new TV show.

I am not going to write whole life story of him but I just want to write something which I think he deserve. As you all know about Bollywood actors, they are one of the most well versed dignities in India with money running towards them from all the directions. They earn big from their films and always keep earning from the commercials. But I think Amir Khan is the first person who decided to do a TV show which was really related to problems of general people and our country. Again doing the show doesn’t mean that he will solve the issues but at least he is trying. If everybody does their bit all the problems will be resolved one day.

I am not saying that nobody did anything they all do but may be in different ways. Like Salman khan is doing lot of good charity work through supporting various such organizations (popular for Being Human).

But I have seen some picture about Amir Khan on FB like he separated from his wife, kids and all that nonsense and now he wants people to do good things in the TV serial. People are writing lots of things about him like who gave this right to him if he has done such things in his life.

But I never understand why some of people think like that.

May be there was a reason behind his first divorce. Why the people always think” only one person has black side. No marriage can be successful without support from both husband and wife.

So please guys stop thinking about all that crap and posting negative about like on FB, twitter etc. Rather we should support good causes wholeheartedly.  Just support him at least somebody has taken a step in curing India from social diseases.

He has a positive intent behind the TV program. He just wants to end all craps which have been destroying our culture and the name for which we were known throughout ages.  As it is said a country is as good as her citizens. Stop blaming other people but just look within what I have done for my country. The corrupt officials and politicians are not aliens but they are from us. May be something is which we don’t realize. Don’t you think we always try to blame others whether it’s a good work or bad? We need to get out of that shell and start thinking positive. Somebody has got to do this. If not us then the coming generations will have to. Our coming generations will expect that their forefathers should have given them better country than anything else.

It’s high time to look within and realize what I can do. Start finding in yourself and try do your best. Nobody from other countries or planets will come to rescue us. We have to make it a better place to live. First we should check within for what we expect out of others

 If you think there are 1000s of things that can be done by us. I would like to take this opportunity to list a few:

1.                   Be a good human being. Recall what you have learnt in moral lessons. Are you a true follower of those?

2.                   Don’t support corruption. “Buyer is equally responsible as the seller in a trade”.

3.                   Soon I think there will be dust and dryness everywhere. Plant some trees and encourage others to do so.

4.                   Please think and calculate how much money we need in our lifetime. Will our coming generations be useless or do they really need everything from us? I think the answer is no. They need our time and care. Don’t run behind the money. Live and enjoy the life with your loved ones.

5.                    Be an entrepreneur at some point in life and provide life to others. I am not one but I always think seriously on this. And by God’s grace I hope to be one someday.

6.                   Do some charity. If not with money please visit places and help poor with educating their kids.

7.                   Don’t throw your used items there are millions who need them badly. We generally have a tendency to throw something rather than giving it to somebody. I really don’t understand why?

8.                   Every electoral vote has the ability to change the country. Do use your vote.

9.                   Support people who are doing bit for the country rather than looking the wrong side of them.

10.               Huge population is not always a curse. They can be helping hands as well if utilized properly.

I am running short of words and getting a bit sentimental as well. But I really need your support. I will feel really blessed if all the people around me are thinking about the country as well. But saying this doesn’t mean they don’t enjoy. After all, a better place to live will provide more fun and enjoyment as well.

I hope that some thoughts must be provoked inside your mind reading this post. Have fun and live     happily. Spread smiles and happiness!!!

Indian Politicians and Black Money

It has been a long time since I wrote something in this blog.

But today I couldn’t stop myself and decided to share something important as an Indian. I don’t want to write about me this time and bore you guys because there is more important issue in my mind.

Today morning my husband was reading newspaper. While reading he told me that after five years, there has been a surge in money held by Indians in Swiss bank. To say the least, it indirectly means that black money is on increase and corrupt Indians are depositing more and more of money in Swiss banks.  I don’t think it is normal people like us. Who are these people? Are they politicians, businessmen, actors, players?

At least actors and players do something. They entertain people. If Businessmen are depositing money but they are also proving jobs to fellow Indians. What about Indian politicians? Are they doing any good to anybody other than themselves?  I just can’t find answer to these questions.

Just for information, politicians are the dignities who fight for their seat in the parliaments or state assemblies to decide the fate of a country or state. Some of them are elected by us to run the country. Those collectively are called the government.  I am never against any particular party or person as these people are none other than me, you or anybody among us. But the power gives them corruption rather than responsibility.

When I ask to myself, I can relate that Indian government is totally behaving like Asur(demons) who  were always against good people. They always try to snatch good people’s (sadhu,deva) money,  land, food etc and they were never satisfied. Even they had everything, but as they say there is no end to greed they did all the bad things till their end. So are the politicians but there  is a difference between Asur and corrupt politician, Asur used to frightened from God(as there was always a rescue plan for every demon) but politicians think they are above everything(God). In our lives we are missing something which can do that missing control.

I do not understand what they guys (government) will do with this much money and how other poor people will survive. Sometimes I think they have the plan of removing the poor to get rid of poverty. So I think the government is doing their work perfectly ending the poverty from India.

Because of these corrupt politicians, I do not think our coming generations’ future is safe anymore.

Going be what is happening now a days it looks like that in future only the rich people will survive. Middle class will turn poor and there will be no more poor people. I may sound a pessimist.

So guys let me know what you think about this, you comments really means to all of us.

May be you will be the person who will lead us. It’s always a step which we need to take to complete long journeys.

Truth for Life

I was watching some movie and suddenly got remember about my childhood when i was in hostel my father come to meet me on monthly intervals. He always brought me lot of food and cloths. I feel very happy like other child's. Do you know one thing we never got realization that when we grow up and gets our own other family, new mother, father and a wonderful person with whom we have to spend our whole life. Once when we have our children we come to know that how much they important to us. how much we love them like our parent do. If we normally think about all this not look like big deal but if we really think about this deeply its very..i don't know but very much emotional . When i see my self i think just before some month. I was little child for my parents and now i got married and have a wonderful husband. I don't know hows all this happened. But some time i really get scared like how life will go and missing family so much.
But now I think this is the life and everybody have to face this.
This is the meaning of life and truth for life so GOD Bless to every one and good luck.