Friday, December 14, 2012

Why we are afraid to be Responsible?

When I was writing a post before this one as a birthday present for my papa, I even can’t image that he would be in the hospital on his birthday.
I don’t know how I am writing this post, may be because I do not have any one to share my pain at this point.


















Why the people do not take responsibility, when they do something wrong. I know no one wants to hurt any one intensely but if you did something wrong at least be responsible for what you have done.
If you did hit someone by car at least take him to hospital. Why we all afraid so much to take responsibility and even doesn’t think about the person family? It is very simple to hurt someone but why we afraid to admit our own mistakes.
I am not only talking about hitting or killing someone. I mean to say, if you had fight with your friends, family or you did some thing wrong at work, why is it hard for people to admit their mistakes. No one is perfect in their life then Why we always want to blam some one else. One sorry will not make any one die.
At least it will make some one feel better and help him or her to forgive you.
I know “Sorry” will not change any thing but this word work like a medicine sometime.
Whenever you hurting someone just try to feel “what would be you feel if you are at his place”
this thinking will make every thing so simple for you to understand.
If we take responsibility at a right time, may be it will save someone life and it would be less painful compare to thinking whole life about that person” is he alive or not”.
I want to salute those people who helped other person without even knowing them and thanks to all people who helped even ones in their life when someone really needed them.
We all (including me) think sometime like “that person is bad or the politicians are bad. But I think we just need to changes our self and the every thing will be wonderful.
Wish you luck and thanks to all people you helps others without expecting any thing or knowing them.