Wednesday, October 31, 2012

Father daughter relationship



This post is dedicated to papa.

Father Daughter relationship is the one of the most loving and beautiful relations on the earth.

Mostly we know that mother suffer lots of problems and pain during baby birth.
But father is the person who may be not able to feel that pain but he spend his whole life to work hard for his baby and does lots of wait to see a first sight of his baby girl or boy. He feels so cheer full when his baby opens their eyes in his hand. He waits for hearing the words “papa” from his child.
You can say it is like a most exciting moments for him and start planning for his baby future before baby come to this world.



He helps his daughter or son for their first walk & spends his every night sitting near to his baby, so baby will not cry. If we think about beautiful moment we had spent with our family, its looks like a dream now because we are grownup and Busy in own world.




 But still there are lot of memories in every one life which always come up in mind, sometime may be they are not very much good but still they left little smile on every one faces and remind us how much stupid we were.
I still remember when my father went to school for my admission, how much excited he was at that time, looks like he was the one who going to school and me you can assume that.

Every day after coming from office, he always spare sometime for me to play with me. I don’t know how he managed that. Now I am working & feels like every day is fighting for life, forgets about any spare time.
He always tried his best to keep me happy and gave everything, like every good father do even may be they are not able to effort that. Do you know what is the funny thing, when I was child always wish to be a grownup and earn lots of money and do something? Now I wish to control time and go back to my childhood and spend my whole life with my parents.

Whenever I need him he was always beside me. He is the one who always help me to select what is wrong and right. Yes, mostly all the time, I don’t listen to him but he always loves me. I can say he is the only one who accepts me as am I. Why he is so kind and nice & why I was so rude. 
I don’t have answers of my own question till now. Our parents always love us without any expiation and we always think, we do not need any one but inside our heart we have so much love for them, just a matter of time sometime it is too  late to listen own heart. One day I was talking to my father on the Skype internet and suddenly, he start crying & there was lots of tear in his eyes and as A very much good and lovely daughter, I start laughing  and asked him “hey papa why are u crying”. He was sitting so quiet and sad then he said I miss u lot, you are my naughtiest daughter whenever I used to come back to home on holidays (he is in army). We always had a fight and now my missing that fight & missing your stupid thing which you always do. (Actually I am specialist in braking things like TV, fans and much more).
Then what after hearing that words I felt like my heart beat stopped but I just don’t want to let him know that “I miss you too Dad” and I gave a smile and said “bye dad, I am feeling sleepy”.

Now I just want to say
“Dear papa, I know your birthday is coming next month, maybe I will not there with you.
But I know, I am always in your heart and some time I do thing which you don’t like.
I am so sorry for everything and just want to say “I love you dad more than anything and Wish you very very happy birthday in advance.  I know, I cannot able to do thing which you have done for me,
But I will try my best to be a good daughter and for you as your son.

Love you Papa 
 

2 comments:

  1. Thanks for posting. I can feel the love for your dad when I read it. It's so moving! I just decided to look up father and daughter on google after listening to How He Loves by the David Crowder Band on youtube. I guess I just wanted to get a sense of the love between a father and daughter...and this was so sweet. Thank you.

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